Column: Parents do not always know what’s best

Since I was 10-years-old, action sports, especially BMX riding, has been an integral part of my life.

My friends and I would ride all day and all night until we felt the soreness down to our bones.

My mother noticed my infatuation with BMX quickly. She noticed my injuries and began regretting ever buying me a bike.

My mom and dad both attempted to take away my bike after my first concussion.

Finding out my parents were set to take BMX from me hurt more than the concussion itself.

After weeks of riding BMX regardless of their permission my parents eventually warmed up to the fact I ride BMX, love action sports, and will continue to push myself through BMX.

Since my parent’s involuntary approval, BMX has kept me out of trouble and has shaped me in a positive way.

As a child growing up I watched first hand as peers went from decent small town kids to delinquents. Riding kept me away from joining the riff raff and into an endeavor far beyond my expectations.

At the age of 13, I was awarded a co-sponsorship from Nirve Bicycle Company.

The bicycle firm reinforced my riding with stickers and merchandise that kept me riding hard and progressing with gusto.

At 18, I entered a small contest ponsored by various BMX shops and companies.

I was the youngest rider in my class and finished fourth.

BMX has sculpted my attitude over the years and has given me a new outlook on life.

I have learned many life lessons. Including the value of work ethic.

In order to progress as a BMX rider one must not be afraid of working.

Over spring break I was attempting a particular “line,” (series of tricks in a row) in a parking lot. I failed many times and drove myself to fatigue.

As the sun was setting and the sweat was making my handlebars slippery, I gave it one more go and landed perfectly.

Work ethic is a constant practice that can be applied to life,I apply what I lean from BMX into life every day.

If I didn’t stand up to my parents I would have never embarked on the wonderful quest of riding.

I would have never met the fascinating individuals BMX has exposed me too.

In addition, I would never be half as wise or ambitious as I am today.

If you feel that your parents are attempting to restrict you from a genuine passion in life,stand up to your parents and let them know how you feel.

Trust me, not celebrating what you want to do or want to be carries twice the agony of a concussion.

Charles LeGrand can be reached at 581-7942 or crlegrand@eiu.edu.